Ah, July 4th - that good ol' American holiday in the heat of the summer. Fireworks, food, families, friends, music, flags. And, today, since the 4th falls on a Sunday, faith is one of the words to include.
We Americans are proud of our independence, as well we should be.
Sometimes, though, I think we ought to recognize and celebrate our interdependence as well. We wave our flags and celebrate independence, but, in reality, we are truly an interdependent nation, an interdependent people.
In other words, we depend on each other.
Think about just any one routine day. Most of us depend upon the person who delivers the paper, the person who delivers the mail.
Perhaps we depend on those who write the news articles in the newspaper. We depend upon those who deliver the news on radio and TV.
We depend on other drivers to travel with care.
We depend on teachers, firefighters, law enforcement officers. We depend on farmers, wholesalers, retailers.
And baby-sitters, nurses, doctors, pharmacists.
We depend on friends and family to be there for us, in good times and in bad. We rely on retailers and clerks; bankers and advisers; cooks and chefs in restaurants; employers and fellow employees.
We depend on architects to design and engineers to build safe buildings, bridges and roads. We rely on inspectors to look out for consumers. We depend on bus drivers, pilots, train conductors.
We trust and depend on counselors and religious leaders.
We depend on others and others depend on us. We depend on our own prayers and on the prayers of others, just as others sometimes depend on our prayers for them.
It’s fine to celebrate our independence, but perhaps we ought to take time to reflect on just how interdependent we are as well. Can you think of several people who depend on you? How about people you depend on? Who are they and why do you rely on them?
This interdependence is a trust in others to do their jobs well, to be real friends, to be supportive family members.
We can’t do without each other, can we? As John Donne wrote, “No man is an island.”
How fortunate we are to have each other! How fortunate we are to have not only our independence but also our interdependence.
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2 comments:
You can't imagine how much I love this post. It's so true--we need both our independence and our interdependence. One doesn't work without the other. Thank you for pointing this out on the perfect day to do so!
Very true. And a good way to think about this. We are now more connected than ever before.
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